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For many, dating can be one of the scariest things for people.  You may even be tired of being alone all the time, or you might be one of those people who just want to date more than one person.  No matter where you are in your life, you are always welcome to come back to this website to help assist yourself with your dating needs.  You may be at a point in your life where you have to start all over with dating and don’t know where to begin.  I put this website together to help all those frustrated people out there who are tired of being alone, tired of being rejected, tired of looking at online dating sites for hours and simply not getting anywhere.  You may even have gotten out of a long term relationship, or a divorce and you just don’t know where to begin. You may also feel like you lack the self-confidence to go out on a date.  You may feel as though you might screw-up that big chance with a person you just met.  Or, the biggest thing most people encounter before going on a date is what do you say to the person you want to approach?  No matter where you are in your life right now, this website can help out.

“Counterintuitive Intelligence” to me means having the social interactive mindset which is counter to what most people’s intuition would lead them to expect.  This means doing something that most people would not expect to normally do in a social situation.

Guys, did you know that women have a built-in radar system within them?  When you approach a woman their radar system tunes into you, instantly.  If you do the wrong thing, her radar activates her defense mechanism, and her walls go up and you are left outside those walls with no way inside.  Using Counterintuitive Intelligence will help you get in with her quickly so her walls don’t go up at all.   Having an understanding of what’s going on in your inner mindset will open the flood gates to many dates.  Your inner game, outer game and your lifestyle is crucial when it comes to having success in dating.

 Reading Signals

If you are driving your car and you approach a signal light that is red what would you do?  Most people would slow down and eventually stop.  This is the reality of most people when it comes to approaching someone they like.  They see someone they want to interact with and then they stop and don’t approach them.  Why is that?  It’s because their current reality tells them to stop.  What stops you in your mind when you see a person you want to date? They must have a boyfriend/girlfriend or is married… I’d look foolish if they ignore me She is so beautiful… I can’t get a woman like that I’m not dressed well enough to approach or date a person like that. What do I say to that person when I approach them?  So what happens next?  Do you leave the venue and play back in your mind the things you wish you had said?  Do you kick yourself and get frustrated that you missed your chance of a lifetime?  It’s a very common scenario when it comes to approaching the person you like. In this website we are going to tap deep into your mind and look at some limiting beliefs you may have and recondition that into new beliefs that will transform your current reality into a reality you deserve.  Thus, you will enjoy dating someone that you picked and not a person who picked you.  You will have the power of choice.  Isn’t that much better than having to wait years to hook-up with that special someone?   So let’s create a better reality for you when it comes to dating. Your new reality is not to stop at the signal light before you approach someone.  Your new reality is to look to your left and to your right to see the traffic signals adjacent to the one you are approaching change color.  When you see the adjacent signal lights turning yellow you do not step on your brakes, you coast and then you go because the red light in front of you is about to turn green.  You are going to flow with the go.  Now this is just an analogy of course, so don’t be guessing traffic signals and getting into any wrecks. Knowing the proper signals that a person is projecting can give you a huge advantage over the other person.  Signals are not the only thing that will get you more dates, but it can help you get in-tuned with a person’s signal of attraction.  But do we need these signals before we approach a person?  No, we do not, but when you do see them, it will tip the scales to your advantage and help you decide if you want to continue with the conversation or move on.  Also, this will help you calibrate yourself in seeing way ahead so you know if the person is even worth pursuing.  You are going to develop a filtering system, so when you meet that special someone you want to go on a date with, you will see years ahead and know right away if that person is the one you want to spend time with forever, or even spend the next 30 minutes with. Most of what you read out there regarding approaching and interacting with women will not always agree with your reality.  However, since everyone has different personalities you must customize what you learn as your own.  I also highly recommend learning as much as you can about this art by taking lots of notes, or just bookmark this website so you can come back for more references.   Also, it is very important that you do not fall into the trap of learning all you can before putting these dating tools into action.  This is the trap of analysis creating paralysis.  Over analyzing this dating art, and not taking action can cripple your dating success.  So, you must act quickly.  The only way you will learn is to go out there and try it out for yourself.  I give you permission to fail.  Why?  Because most will want to succeed on their first time out and that is just not going to happen right away.  So fail greatly!  Only from failure is when you will start to calibrate your new dating reality to what works for you and what doesn’t. So stick with me, and learn all you can so you too can improve your dating skills and meet the person of your dreams.  So remember, dating is a fun thing when you have the tools I’m going to share with you.  With this new found dating knowledge, you too will have the power of choice to date whoever you want.